Break Up With Your Girl

Best Ways to Break Up With Your Girl

It has reached the time in your relationship when you know there is no future. You know you need to break off your relationship, but you don't want to hurt the girl that you have committed to for some time. Break the news in a gentle and honest manner to soften the blow and to leave on amicable terms.

In Person
Anything other than a breakup in person is just lame, especially if the relationship has lasted a long time. Don't text, Facebook, call or email her to break up. You can say that you want to talk via these methods, but do the actual dumping in person. Letting her know that you want a sit-down will also help her begin to emotionally prepare for the meeting.

In Public
Breaking up with someone in public should not usually be done, but it may be necessary with your particular girlfriend, depending on her demeanor. If you think that a private setting will make her needy and clingy, which will ultimately lead to her feeling ashamed of her behavior later, ask her to meet you in public. This way, she will keep her composure and confidence in check.

In Private
It is best with most women to have the breakup discussion in private. This helps her to understand the reasons for the breakup and the consequences and gives her the time to ask you questions.

Gently
Don't recite a list of her annoying habits. Let her know that you still think that she´s great and a good girlfriend, but you don't see the relationship working out. Comfort her, but stay firm in your stance.

Responsibly
Acknowledge any wrongdoing on your part. If you were unfaithful, come clean. Let her know your part in why the relationship didn't work out. This may not help her at the moment, but she will feel better later to know that the breakup was not entirely her fault.

Peacefully
Don't fight during the breakup discussion, blame her for her mistakes or call her names. Simply state the facts, talk in a calm and collected manner and realize that this information may be devastating to her.

Honestly
Be honest about why you are breaking up. You don't need to say that you are breaking up because she is clingy and preventing you from seeing more attractive women. Simply state that you and she do not have the same viewpoint on your relationship and where it is heading. If she wants a commitment and you're not ready, tell her.

Completely
Let her know that the relationship is over and be sincere. Don't call her later when you feel guilty and try to be friends. Definitely don't call her to hook up so that she settles for only a physical relationship.

Honorably
Avoid breaking up with her in a way that will embarrass her. Don't make a scene at her place of work or announce the breakup at a party with friends and family present. Let her take the lead on when to inform other people of your breakup. Keep any negative opinions about her to yourself.

Quickly
Have one breakup discussion and then move on. Don't drag it out. Give her honest and complete information and then leave after a few minutes of comforting her and apologizing. She needs time to heal and your continued presence will only cause her more pain and confusion.

Best Movie Villains

Best Movie Villains

DARTH VADER (STAR WARS)

Darth Vader is the famous villain in the Star Wars movie. He’s a good guy turned to bad villain. He has two kids in Star Wars; Luke Skywalker and Princess Leia Organa.

HANNIBAL LECTER (SILENCE OF THE LAMBS)

Hannibal Lecter is stars in the stories of Hannibal Lecter, Silence of The Lambs and Red Dragon. He is a genius physician who is into eating human flesh! This is the kind of doctor I wouldn’t want to have a check up with.

AGENT SMITH (THE MATRIX TRILOGY)

Agent Smith is the kind of villain who does a good character job by putting an end to the rebellion in The Matrix Trilogy and is played by Hugo Weaving. He has the ultimate goal of putting an end to all plans of Neo (Keanu Reeves).

THE JOKER

Undoubtedly Batman’s greatest rival, Joker is one of the greatest movie villains of all time. While Jack Nicholson played Joker as well as anyone could, Heath Ledger’s Joker in The Dark Knight is probably the finest we will ever see this super villain portrayed on screen. The dichotomy between the Batman and Joker is unparalleled and Ledger and Bale took it to another level. 

While a lot of criminals are masterminds, the reason why Joker is the best villain is summed up by this simple dialog from Alfred,  Some men aren’t looking for anything logical, like money. They can’t be bought, bullied, reasoned, or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the world burn.

MEGATRON

Megatron is the leader of the antagonist’s side on the Transformer movies. He has the ultimate goal of eradicating mankind and is always up against Optimus Prime who always defends mankind’s welfare. Hugo Weaving is the voice behind Megatron in the Transformers franchise.

LORD VOLDEMORT

With his immense power and never-ending desire to rule in the magical world, Lord Voldemort has made it his life goal of killing Harry Potter in all the Harry Potter movies. This role is portrayed by Ralph Fiennes.

CRUELLA DE VIL

Portrayed by Merill Streep, Cruella De Vil is the greedy villain in the movie 101 Dalmatians. She has big interests in getting all those Dalmatians for her biggest obsession-fur coats.

 MAGNETO

Ian McKellen has played the mature role of Magneto in the Xmen franchise who wants to take down the non-mutants to create a pure race of mutants. He started as Professor X’s friend but turned to the other side after he experienced treachery of non-mutants to his fellow mutants.

THE RED QUEEN

Helena Bonham Carter has made a successful portrayal of the Red Queen in the 2010 Alice In Wonderland movie. The Red Queen has ruled Wonderland, taking it from White Queen, who is the rightful royalty and inflicts treachery and terror on all who live in Wonderland.